90. Leverage your connection superpowers

There are 90 different connection skills/action steps outlined in this blog so far. It’s impossible to be good at all 90, but you are sure to great at some! Here’s why (and how) to leverage your connection strengths.

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89. Repair. Learn to have hard conversations.

One of the (many) factors contributing to disconnection is that we avoid addressing conflicts, hurts, and missteps. But we can learn how to have hard conversations and repair relationships.

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88. The costs of ignoring connection in the workplace

6 out of 10 American employees report they are lonely … which has enormous implications for employees’ health and well-being, not to mention financial costs.

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87. People hate small talk, so why do we keep engaging in it?

You can’t just bring people together and expect connection to happen. You need to facilitate it…

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86. Why you (probably) need more touch

Physical touch has a big impact on health and well-being, and most of us are suffering from touch deprivation.

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85. Reduce social anxiety or discomfort in 2 seconds

If you’ve ever felt socially anxious, awkward, or like your emotional state gets in the way of connecting, this post is for you.

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84. Does social media help or harm connection?

Social media has changed the way we connect, but is it for the better, or worse? Well, it depends…

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83. Thinking outside the box to address mental health needs

With rates of depression and anxiety continuing to rise, we need to look at creative solutions to help address mental health needs. This post highlights one such solution … the friendship bench movement.

82. Three great ways to gamify connection

People are notoriously bad at following through on goals, even important ones. Gamification dramatically increases motivation and improves follow through (make it fun if you want it done). This post describes 3 great ways to gamify connection.

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81. Want to avoid cognitive decline? Be social.

One more reason to prioritize relationships: high social engagement has been found to help prevent cognitive decline later in life.

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80. Practice entusiastic greeting to connect instantly

In our interactions with other people, some moments carry more weight than others. Do this to make a positive impression…

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79. Look for commonalities to connect with someone instantly.

We tend to like people who are similar us … in almost any way. When you look for commonalities it gives you something to bond, commiserate, or connect over.

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78. Eye contact can help or harm connection

The gaze, the glare, and the gape … eye contact can make us feel seen, heard, and loved, or it can make us feel creeped out, squirmy, or fearful. Leverage the power of eye contact to build connection.

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77. This simple attitude shift makes you more likable

Research shows that our expectations of how others feel about us becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. If we expect people not to like us, then they are less likely to. What would happen if you started expecting people to like you?

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76. Time alone improves relationships, mental health, and productivity

When we think about strengthening connection, we usually think about spending time with other people, but time alone can improve the quality of our relationships … and productivity.

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75. Why belonging matters and how to build it

Having a sense of belonging leads to better outcomes all around, but how do you generate a sense of belonging? One way is through providing mentorship…

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74. What to do when you want other people to change

There are times when other people’s behavior frustrates, irritates, or negatively impacts us and we want them to change. But giving a lecture or telling people what to do rarely works. Try these approaches instead.

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73. How helping others helps you

There are countless organizations, people, and causes that need support. You can make a difference by volunteering your time … and the benefits are reciprocal!

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